Saturday, December 10, 2016

WE AND THE DARK SIDE OF THE INTERNET.

WE AND THE DARK SIDE OF THE INTERNET VIS-À-VIS THE SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS. BETWEEN REALITY AND VIRTUALITY: THE CHANCES AND THE RISKS.
                                (This far we have come.)    
                                                                                                                               Kingsley Anagolu
University of Bonn, Germany

INGRESS:

Once upon a time, a nice friend of mine sent me an interesting reality joke per my Twitter handle. This was a conversation between a father and her lovely daughter who wrote through E-MAIL to her father. The girl wrote:
“Dad, am in luv wt a boi who livs faraway frm mi. Am in d US n he livs in London. We cam 2 kno ourselvs 2r PARSHIP, a d8n WEBSITE n bekam ril friends 2r FACEBOOK. We hv bn maintaining our frndship 2r WHATSAPP chattin. He jst proposed marrg 2 mi via SKYPE n now we hv had a closer rlship since den 2r VIBER. Can u cull mi 2r IMO n gv us ya fatherly blessings n gud wishes. Ya luvly daughter.”
The father wrote back to her through HOTMAIL:
“Mai daughter, 2r my LINKEDIN conekshn I recivd an SMS ALERT jst ystdy dt am nw one of d minsters of d federation n un4tunately nw, am in a VIDEO CONFERENCE wt d president. Hence, jst snd mi ya BBM pin 2r GOOGLE+ so I can snd u d blessings. Hwever, I tink dt both of u shld marry 2r APPLE FACETIME. Hav fun 2r TANGO, buy children frm AMAZON n snd dem 2 skul 2r GMAIL or per POST. Snd mi d pix 2r TWITTER or INSTAGRAM, n if u ar no mor satisfied wt da marrg, sell ya husby ONLINE 2r EBAY. Wll cull u via TELBO later. Ya luvly dad.”
After reading this text, I could not control the laughter which took over me; but as the laughter waned, serious thoughts set in and it dawned on me that this is how far we have evolved in terms of our communication skills and how we now relate with/to one another: parents to children, children to parents, friends to friends, all to one and one to all. I got worried. Now whoever is not contemporenous would find it difficult understanding the above message which seems like a mumbo jumbo and even those who are following the trend of things would really have to re-read the message (over and over again) in order to comprehend it all. This indeed is where we are – the “smart” era.

Detour:
The theory of evolution, not only of species, but of all things, is at once captivating as well as it is intriguing. Man in his rapid development, and in the bid for a better and easier life, draws all things towards himself, either to use them to his advantage, or inadvertently to be used by them in an indeterminate and indeterminable symbiotic relationship. Thus humanity in its quest to reduce space and maximize time, just to “conquer and subdue” his limitedness and finitude, has come a very long way to a point where it can say: we have made a giant stride! Indeed! Such strides shoot in different directions where humans engage, be it in the arts, culture, economy, humanities, science, music, politics, education or technology, the stories resemble themselves. But let us put this write up in proper perspective. We take a closer look at science and technology, or we might just say, let us break it down to information technology (IT), advancement in the area of human communication and infotainment. This ultimately involves the internet and the media of information that also serve as media of education and entertainment which are the tripartite functions of the media, be it mass, electronic or print. These contain and provide intellective, instructive and recreational elements in themselves, or ought to.
But let’s rewind a little bit to the introductory leitmotif. The dialogical “communication” above between the father and his daughter was actually meant to be a joke but it is actually no more a joke since it captures the very essence of the quality of the relationship and communication we maintain today: we with the social media and we among ourselves. We have developed all sorts of mechanisms and avenues made possible in “smart apps” to get us more connected and indeed, through the deluge of these modern social media, we are more connected as never before. Or are we? However, there lies the paradox of our desires. The more we get connected, the more we get disconnected. What an irony! Sherry Turkle, an American sociologist and professor of science, technology and society from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology describes this paradox in her book “Alone Together” as “connected but alone,” more informed but less educated. Ever since the invention of the information super highway, the World Wide Web, and lately in connection with the mobile smartphones and devices, we can now reach one another and gather information as and when we wish, just in a twinkle of an eye and at the flip of the finger either through Badoo, BBM, Bebo, BlackPlanet, Classmates, Cyworld, E-Mail, Facebook, Flixstermy, Friendster, Gaia Online, Google, Google+, Habbo, Heritage, Hi5, Hyves.nl, Ibibo, imo, Instagram, IRC-Galleria, iWiW, Kaixin001, LinkedIn, Meetup, MillatFacebook, Mixi, Multiply, MyLife, MySpace, myYearbook, Nasza-Klasa.pl, Netlog, NING , Orkut, PerfSpot, Pinterest, Reddit, Renren, Skype, SkyRock, Sonico , StudiVZ, Tagged, Tuenti, Twitter, Viber, Wer-kennt-wen, Whatsapp, Wikipedia, Xing, Yahoo, Zorpia and that’s just but a few. Yet we are now as never before in dire need of knowing ourselves, one another as well as having quality information by and large.
At the wake of and even within the periods traditionally called the “seven mass media” including (1) PRINT (books, pamphlets, newspapers, magazines, etc. in the late 15th century), (2) RECORDINGS (gramophone records, magnetic tapes, cassettes, cartridges, (3) CDs, and DVDs in the late 19th century), (4) CINEMA from about 1900, (5) RADIO from about 1910, (6) TELEVISION from about 1950, things were determinable and to some reasonable extent controllably qualitative as it concerns human relationships, information and communication. But soon came the (7) INTERNET and MOBILES, especially the smart ones and tablets, and the stories changed forever. Now quantity and quality (of the things we do and the life we live) are at war.

PROGRESS:
The 7th of the mass media – the Internet – which is the global system of interconnected computer networks that use the Transmission Control Protocol/Internet Protocol suite (TCP/IP) to link billions of devices worldwide is a network of networks that consists of millions of private, public, academic, business, and government networks of local to global scope, linked by a broad array of electronic, wireless, and optical networking technologies. This carries an extensive range of information resources and services, such as the inter-linked hypertext documents and applications of the World Wide Web (www), electronic mail, telephony, and peer-to-peer networks for file sharing.
The origins of the Internet date back to research commissioned by the United States government in the 1960s to build robust, fault-tolerant communication via computer networks but the linking of commercial networks and enterprises by the early 1990s marks the beginning of the transition to the modern Internet and generated a sustained exponential growth as generations of institutional, personal, and mobile computers were connected to the network. Like said, ever since this internet period and lately in its interconnectedness with the mobile smart phones and devices, human communications, interactions and relationships have been exponentially and substantially redefined. Prior to this new internet/smart-device era, it used to be arduous trying to source for information or reach out to one another in a simple, fast and unlimited way despite, as it were, the existence of books and electromagnetic telephone technology. That inability alone was the enabler to the real industriousness in research and especially intimacy between folks, where brothers and sisters, friends and parents travelled miles in order to commune with one another. There used to be the modern day “Areopagus” that forms a meeting point for real time interactions and information sourcing, ranging from libraries, supermarkets, schools, market places, churches, etc. This guaranteed and sustained the possibility and reality of a real time intersubjectivity among people, what Martin Buber – the Jewish/Austrian religions philosopher – called “I-Thou” Relationship. Here, persons encountered persons in their personality, real identity, height, weight, colour, character, body fragrance, emotions and humanity. It was a time when folks looked at one another face-to-face and smiled together, laughed together and cried together. It was a time of real connection made possible by the knowledge of the fact that it was not easy to achieve, not knowing when it could happen again. People appreciated and sustained this reality. Now the explosion in the internet/digital communication technology in the late 20th and early 21st centuries made prominent another Reality which is far from what used to be, namely, that the single Reality has got a twist, having got a branch to itself which is virtual (Virtuality). One asks oneself certainly what this all means. As the theme of this write-up suggests, there has been birthed a sociological fact of double standards of reality within which folks now operate in terms of what they do and who they are, namely, the ‘Real-Reality’ (RR - REAL-ITY) and the ‘Virtual-Reality’ (VR - VIRTUAL-ITY). The former represents authenticity and concreteness, the authentic self. This is the world where we encounter people as they really are and know them in whom they are. It is the world where people live with their permitted imperfections and limitations, encountering one another in real time humanness. This differs from the virtual-world or Virtual-Reality (VR or Virtual-ity), where people construct an “avatar personality,” selling different shades of counterfeit identity to different people. This is similar to an “immersive multimedia” or “computer-simulated life,” which replicates an environment that simulates physical presence in places in the real world or imagined worlds and lets the user interact in that world where one could successfully hide ones identity and put up a smoke screen type of life. Worthy of note is that this “Virtual-Reality” has gained so much space in the “Real-Reality” that most people can no more distinguish between the two, and this makes people to lead a parallel life similar to that of Mr. Jekyll (who plays the good guy) and Dr. Hyde (who plays the bad guy), with or without the knowledge of the existence of such double personality in their lives. Most people even make a preference of living rather in this virtual-life other than facing themselves in the real world. In this virtual world, everything is online: online shopping (buying and selling of goods), online ordering and selling of food, online travel bookings and checking in etc. This new reality has highly impersonalized us to the extent that we can now sit back at the comfort of our homes interacting with the whole world, yet alone with our computers. Hence the speed with which the internet/social media network platforms gained entrance, wide spread and usage/abuse becomes understandable because it guarantees among other things this virtual life where almost all things are possible with “unlimited freedom,” but where information and data could easily be manipulated or where people could be hoodwinked into swallowing all sorts of garbage as information. It’s like the life of the Batman, who is ever hiding behind a mask, leaving people only to their fate of guessing the real identity of the man behind the iron mask.
Nonetheless, let’s be fair to the internet and especially the modern social media platforms; they have definitely pushed our generation beyond imagination. They have unmistakably fine-tuned and polished the life we live in terms of information sourcing, marketing, research, communication and the like. Indeed, this is certainly a plus to our world. The quantity of media and socialization sources becomes more available and reachable and this helps to expand the number of one's business and/or social contacts by making connections through individuals, known and unknown. This has, without a doubt, connected people as never before especially through the so-called “six degrees of separation” which is the theory and now by means of the modern social network outfits like Facebook and others, that anyone on the planet can be connected to any other person on the planet through a chain of acquaintances that has no more than five intermediaries. By this theory, anyone who is connected to the Facebook for instance is a friend to all persons in the Facebook network through a chain of internet based interconnectivity. Based on this six degrees of separation concept, social media networking establishes interconnected online communities (sometimes known as social graphs) that help people make contacts that would be good for them to know, but that they would be unlikely to have met otherwise. Depending on the social media platform, members may be able to contact any other member. In other cases, members can contact anyone they have a connection to, and subsequently anyone that contact has a connection to, and so on. And in that way we all are locked together in a huge family of friends who know or do not know themselves. These are, in the main, internet dependent platforms whereby one gains access to per computer and/or smart-device of which a good number of people possesses. Though this kind of practice has gone on almost as long as societies themselves have existed, the unparalleled potential of the Web to facilitate such connections is only now being fully recognized and exploited, through Web-based groups established for that purpose. From them, we have gained, without doubt, and we are still gaining.
But having said that, it remains to be said that just as it is true with the “uncertainty principle” of the german physicist Karl Werner Heisenberg, where the attempt to correct the error in one side of an equilibrium increases the error at the other side, the flip side of the good news about the internet and the social media is enormous. It has a domino character of infinite multiplication of itself into fantasy and make-believe, locking reality into its dark hole of all possibilities and endless nothingness. This is a world where every encounter becomes impersonal and people are at liberty to assume any personality and authority at their own whims and caprices depending on what image and propaganda they want to sell out and what aim they want to achieve. The internet dependent social media – this collective of online communication channels dedicated to community-based input, interaction, content-sharing and collaboration; websites and applications dedicated to forums, microblogging, social networking, social bookmarking, social curation, and wikis have indeed changed, not only the way we perceive/relate to ourselves and what we do, but ultimately the way we live and basically what we are. We are now habituated to log in to check out for news feeds/gossips which lack criteria of authenticity, we log in to follow others and to be followed, we constantly upload our pictures and thoughts, hoping they will receive positive comments and feed backs for self-validation, we wait for chats to arrive to keep us out of our loneliness because we have lacked the capacity to be alone, we mob others and have been constantly mobbed by friends and foes, our data bank and information account have been invaded, hacked and abused, we have been lured into errors and plethora of negativities, we have been beguiled into websites which we would rather not visit, we are constantly bombarded with junk blogs and unedited materials, we constantly check and spy as well as stalk one another, we insult one another per comments and become enemies to those we know and do not know, indeed we dance on top of one another’s sensibility and integrity. In point of fact, our time has been otherwise robbed of us and we approve of it. We have been point blank redefined! In all of all this, we come out only being sure of ourselves alone, or even no more. Here the words of Sherryl Tuckle returns handy, where Sherryl talks about being “lost under 100 friends.” I think Sherryl was being frugal with the number index because it should have been “lost under a googolplex of friends.” This is a system where one could make thousands of friends in one hour, yet one is alone and lonely as it is technology that defines whom we are in this new regime. Sherryl’s book is subtitled in its german version “wie wir in der digitalen Welt seelisch verkümmern.This loosely implies that we have been atrophied and our humanity withered away in the digital world. This includes our relationships, education, communication, our psyche and ideologies, thanks to the digital Virtual Reality. This is an era where relationships are made online and broken online, where communications begin online and end online, where physical libraries are superfluous and everything becomes so easy. As the quantity of our possibilities increases therefore, its quality decreases in a typical heisenbergerian “uncertainty principle” of inability to maintain equilibrium and control multiple variables at the random level of our existence. And this enshrines a level of fuzziness in our humanity.

There is this other twist to all of this and this rewinds me once more to the introductory leitmotif of this essay. Why did I get worried after reading the conversation between the father and his daughter which formed the set induction to this write up? Below is a post I got from a friend that contained a chat between two students. 

1. R U coming 2 party?
                                       2. OMG! I forgot...tmrw?
1. ;-( ??? WTF?
                                       2. 4 U xoxox! Sorry!
1. LOL !
                                      2. tmrw @ 10? C U there!
1. sounds good 2 me
                                        2. Later...xoxox!

Am sure the “old school” teachers (indeed!) would be at loss these days as it concerns the modern day style of writing and communication. Well one will say that the essence of communication is understanding. Once the two persons interacting understand themselves, the case is closed. No doubt about that, but there are standards. Standards which have been established that are universally applicable and recognizable. One needs to be acquainted with them before one begins to cut corners. Most kids and school folks do no more know the difference between correctly spoken nay written academic words and the social ones. Amorphous signs and symbols are becoming common place even in serious academic and official write-ups. An instance is an mail written by a student to his teacher with the intention of excusing himself from the school. The student wrote:
                                                                                                           “Dittomatic
Dia ticha,
Ds z 2 lt u no dt i fel sik yestd n knt mk it 2 skul 2dy. Pls du xkuz mi frm ur 2dz lekchos az I’ll b uzin 2dy 2 vist da hosptl. I hp 2 b in skul ASAP 1nc mai helt imprvs. I gv Jeffery d asgnmt u gv us lst wk 2 sbmit 4 mi. Tenks 4 y undastndn.
Ya studnt…
De Mekino.”
I hope you did understand the “letter?” This, by the way, was supposed to have been a formal letter of excuse from a secondary school student to his teacher. The problem is that one wonders with this, if the student knew actually the correct things to write but forgot that it was supposed to be official, or that he does not actually know how to write the words correctly or if whether it was a shear act of insensitivity and malady. Whatever one it was, this is the extent we have come. And this is just one example of it all. Hence the internet and social media which are working in our favour possesses on the flip side a dark energy which seems to be attacking our foundation and devaluing our literacy. We have been so much seduced and excited by technology that it has begun to take us to places that we would rather not go. All these little devices that are so psychologically powerful have, as else said, not only changed what we do and how we do them, but regrettably have changed who we are. People now use these devices to text or chat away during classes, presentations, in churches, during corporate meetings and discussions, big and small and even release communiques filled with colloquial junks. Due from the use or abuse of these little devices that hook us 24/7 online, parents deny each other and their children full attention as equally children deny their parents and one another full attention. At public and private gatherings, nobody talks to nobody, each is head down, fingers on pad and typing away. People collide with themselves head to head, body to body, shoulder to shoulder along the roads without even caring as to raise up their heads to know whom they hit just to maintain the online chatting. People have fallen into ditches and cars have crashed due from chatting. People keep awake all daylong and all night long communing with their virtual friends and in so doing endanger their physical as well as mental health. Real friends gather in one place to have fun or recreate themselves, yet each is involved with a far distant “friend” through chatting. It has become the case that the far-away online friends seem to be all of a sudden more valuable than the immediate face-to-face ones. This corresponds to the observation of the renowned Magazine, “The American Psychologist”, that “…greater use of the Internet and the [smart] phones was associated with declines in peoples  communication with family members in the household, declines in the size of their social circle, and increases in their depression and loneliness.” Indeed we have set ourselves seriously up for trouble about our capacity for self-reflection as we are constantly growing afraid of being alone without our small connecting devices. Whether he actually said it or not is less important as to what is said here in the meme attributed to Mr. Albert Einstein: “I fear the day that technology will surpass our human interaction. The world will have a generation of idiots.” Indeed we have hit that day, point blank, as many now carry themselves like spoiled toddlers, getting dumber as their communication skills continue to spiral downwards.
People now want to customize their lives. People now hide from each other even as they are connected. What Sherryl Tuckle calls the “Goldilocks Effect” has caught up with us and this simply explains that friends cannot get enough of each other only if they are far away from each other, but when close enough, they value themselves less and shift their attention away from themselves to others far away through chatting. This reveals an inner hollowness in our generation that we lack the spirit of commitment and empathy and cannot engage in conversation with ourselves anymore because everyone is afraid of his/her private space being invaded. Sherryl Tuckle writes:
We wanted a smart servant of our everyday lives, now they are our masters. They should help us to save time, now they have become unparalleled time-eaters. We wanted to program them, now they program us. When young people in particular without restraint dive in Blogs, Chats, contact forums and online worlds, that has a deeper psychological reason: Human relationships appear increasingly complicated and hurtful. For this the Net offers contact without true intimacy, communion without risk, closeness with a sufficient safety distance. Modern man often has 100 […] friends, but not a single real friend. Computer and Internet give us the freedom to work anywhere-in fact, we are everywhere, lonely together.”
This attitude negates what Aristotle called eunoia, referring to the kind and benevolent feeling of goodwill among people which forms the basis for the ethical foundation of human life and communion, what Cicero terms benevolentia. This benevolentia contains in itself attention towards others, equality, empathy, affection, reciprocity, symmetry, true companionship. These are essential characteristics of true friendship. But at the virtual level of connection, which is the place we have found ourselves, these characteristics are not only ignored, they are even suppressed. This is superficiality at its height that reveals the weakness of the connections we think we have and value because conversations that happen in real time are avoided. I guess that part of the problem is that real time conversations cannot be edited as they are happening. They are therefore avoided because they might reveal our weakness and imperfection and render us less attractive and less powerful. Hence we shift our real time encounter to virtual encounter where we have all the full liberty and opportunity of editing ourselves and conversations over and over again to make them perfect in order to sell the perfect image we have virtually created and projected about ourselves. We prefer now to talk to one another through machine mediated devices that offer us apparent security of our real identity. And so, “we now expect more from technology and less from ourselves” as Tuckle would write. Of course all of this create an illusion of companionship without the demands of friendship because we can control the indices of virtual operations but the dynamics of real time friendship and human relationship is outside our control. This indeed leads to self-alienation and “sui-implosion”, a kind of belonging to oneself alone and falling in love with inanimacy. Not only that, these media have become also forces that impact on our economy because we now buy things we do not need just to feel relevant. We again constantly feed these devices with MBs and GBs to enable them steadily be hooked to the Net so as not to be cut off. We, with money, subscribe to websites and download applications which are irrelevant sometimes. Now these websites and apps that we visit and download, these groups that we join, our activities and interests, the thoughts that we randomly share, the images and pictures we post, waiting for them to be liked or commented upon, all correlate in one another and establish this subculture of virtual life where everything is how we want it to be from our own point of view. This indeed is terrorism of relativism. This movement has gained a new social system whence Pope Benedict XVI in his Message on the 43rd World Communication Day corroborates that “the new digital technologies […] in fact have basically changed the way and mode of our communication and in human relationship. Friendship is now no more limited to Face-to-Face or human-to-human interaction or as it were traditionally understood.” It exists now at the level of “Friends-lists” so that a simple click on an online button can unite two already known persons or total strangers into friends and conversely, another simple click can disunite and make them again fall into the realm of total strangers.
I once ran into an old school mate whom I have not met for ages. On demand that we go have some quality time and catch up with history, he immediately demanded rather for my number, email, whatsapp, viber, BBM etc, promising to call me later. Not that he was in a hurry or about to miss out on something, but this is unfortunately, to a large extent who we have become. We avoid our real selves and rather meet online. People, especially young people, spend much of their time in this online virtual space and do not seem to do without the look on their Facebook accounts, twitter handles, Whatsapp apps, BBM., to mention but these. This portrays a dependency symptom and syndrome which suggests that the huge "consumption and use/abuse" of these social media networks is not only a major source of time wastage, but even harbours addictions which can be correspondingly dangerous for the young, still unstable people who, according to a 2004 Pew study (from Pew Research Centre, a non-partisan American think tank based in Washington, D.C., that provides information on social issues, public opinion, and demographic trends) 87 percent of teenagers have some form of Internet access, and among those connected teens, 55 percent have created a profile on a social networking site. They would rather text-and video chat without end which is the new social addiction that fundamentally distracts them from their academic and school work, making majority no more to be employable as they become superfluous in the society due to inner emptiness. On the whole, these activities lead to atrophy of the mind, lack of the ability to real communication, dependency on media, severe addiction problems, the decline of real human interaction and poor academic performance.

EGRESS:

It is not enough to recognize irregular patterns in the social order, more is in demand, and that includes as a matter of high priority, how to deal with those patterns. The neo-social order which was given birth to by the internet/social media revolution is a complex one which has the good, the bad and the ugly inside of it. This write up is however not dedicated to the good which is self-evident, but to the bad and the ugly effects, which are not sometimes obvious. The ability to weave through these sometimes interlocking merits and demerits of the internet and call each one by its name is the beginning of our social redemption in this direction. Without doubt, this redemption begins with our freedom to surf in the Net and this freedom is guaranteed by our corresponding know-how, the media/information literacy and the competence on how to navigate positively through these labyrinth of the internet/social media web which offers unending promises. Acquainting oneself with the necessary technical and intellectual as well as mental proficiency and expertise to distinguish what is for us and what is against us, the websites and social fora, the apps and links which are to our advantage and which are to our disadvantage is essential. Such knowledge will equip us with the mental instruments required to be smarter than our “smart” devices. It will enable us to be responsible in our interactions and in the projections of our identity. It will bring us up to date with the dangers locking inside the Net/social media and how to avoid them, making us to know exactly what we seek, how to seek for and find it, it makes us to be weary of what we upload and what we download from the net, what we say and how to say it because the Net never forgets anything. It will give us the power to manipulate the net and not to be manipulated by it. It will make us not to be slaves to the World Wide Web but offers us back our Lordship over the info-superhighway. This media literacy in relation to its ethics needed to be taught in schools and colleges at all levels so as to equip the younger ones who are the primary target with the culture of inner discipline and self-control in the use of those websites and internet dependent apps as well as to salvage them from wanton radicalization, and all from the clutches of miseducation. In this way, the Net and the modern communication world becomes, as Pope Francis says, a help for people to truly and in a real way encounter one another to encourage the unity of the human family.


Such knowledge is necessitated by the fact that we can no more be passerby on the digital highways. Whether we like it or not, we are connected and invariably involved willy-nilly and these connections should grow into true encounters. We can no more live apart, closed in ourselves, we need to love and be loved, and be true to ourselves and to others even as we are socially connected. In this interconnectedness which has caught up with us therefore, we need to take charge in order to avoid being marred by what we made. Media strategies do not ensure beauty, goodness and truth in communication nor in the quality of information we get.  The world of media also has to be concerned with humanity, it too is called to show tenderness.  The digital world can be an environment rich in humanity; a network not of wires but of people.  In this, inner discipline and basic media competence and literacy play a vital role in returning our slipping destiny back into our hands. And when all this is done, humanity remains the winner in the war it is waging with the machine it created because the spider should not be caught in the very web it weaved. Peace! 

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

The Tripple Faces of Ambition



The Triple Faces of Ambition



Breaking the Ice

“…and remember, punctuality is the soul of business”, were the last words of the Managing Director of 2go group of companies, which was equally the last words that McDonald heard in his head that night before sleep defeated him. “…and remember, punctuality is the soul of business”, he dozed off.
…his hands could not at the first instance reach the unnerving mammoth alarm clock that had been ringing for the past 13 minutes. He cursed the day he bought that alarm. For the second time though, he tried, and this time around with an effort more calculated. He meant to silence that distracting morning demon. Ah aah aaahh, his hands reached it at last and presto, the alarm was killed. “Idiot” was all he could say before he went back to sleep. “Idiot!” He cursed the alarm once again, even though he was the very person who set it the previous night to wake him up because he actually wouldn’t want to mess his first day at his new job which made him buy that mammoth alarm clock. But he was just happy to silence it during its very first assignment that morning. Grrr grrrrr grrrrrrr grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, the alarm began again and this time around, with the anger of a bee determined to sting to death its intruder. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr,  McDonald jumped up. Time was 7. 21am, Monday morning. He hit the alarm one more time and wanted to get back to sleep, but then the unstoppable inner alarm took over “…and remember, punctuality is the soul of business”. “…and remember, punctuality is the soul of business”, “…and remember, punctuality is the soul of business”, “…and remember, punctuality is the soul of business”, “…and remember, punctuality …” Now he didn’t even remember the usual order of waking up again. He jumped into the kitchen, had a cold, sauer breakfast, then remembered that he had not taken his bath, did it in a jiffy, put on his tie even before recognizing that it was on a bare body. Aaaahhhhhhh!!!

“Idiot”, now he had to call himself that. Removed the tie again, put on the shirt, shoes without socks, was about rushing out of the door before …bang!!! He didn´t brush his teeth. Pause!!! Then he went back to really wake himself up properly. Unfortunately for him, the last bus of the hour had gone by before he could finish. Stranded on the road, he decided to do the lunatic undone. Sighting an oncoming Peugeot car, he decided to play a quick one. Dispossessed the owner of it, and made away. And thus, his day’s programs spread out. He can’t simply ruin his first day in office, an opportunity he has been looking for ages, of achieving his long desired self-attainment simply by coming late. He was quite desirous and ambitious to write his name on the pages of history, one way or the other, just like any other person. His office time begins by 8.00am. Arriving at 8:41am, “…and remember, punctuality is the soul of business”. He was summoned and summarily dismissed.  Back to base.

Ambition, to whatever thing it could be, is noble, worth it and is on demand. Hope the statement did not throw you off your composure. Ambition, which of course is congenital and attached to the human nature, belongs to the root of what humans are, fundamentally. And like Ralph Waldo Emerson would say, “without ambition one starts nothing”. It functions as the driving force and the enablement  for the human day to day activities, makes one wake up morning after morning, day after day, even when one would rather sleep ahead, makes one go outdoors, when one would rather stay indoors, makes one go into the sun, even when one needs the peace of the shadows, makes one storm one´s brains with multiple engaging thoughts, even when one would rather just watch the clouds move, leaves waving, papers flying, planes gliding through the night sky, just rather listen to slow melodies of soft music and do nothing but abandoning himself to the total caress of mother nature and laze about. Yet one rises and moves ahead, being pushed by a force beyond him to go ahead, to keep moving, to achieve things, and to record ones name even if it is on a marble where only oneself alone knows. This is ambition at work. It is in the nature of man, that is, to desire, to have ambitions. Without ambitions, one is simply vegetative, unproductive, totally stagnated and is as good as dead. Indeed, it’s the necessary and prerequisite instrument for penetrating into the soul of life, the world of the unknown, where success is permanently residing. Without doubt, man needs to be ambitious. But then, wait a bit. What really does this mean? Here, I want to introduce what I call the “POSUFFYOVER” factor. (Don’t look for this word in the dictionary because you will not find it). The “Posuffyover” is a self-coined acronym for a triangular or triad approach to the description of the roads leading to and from ambition. “Po-suffy-over” stands for Poorly-sufficiently and over-motivated ambition. What are we talking about here?


Textfeld: Po-motivated ambi,Textfeld: Over-motivated ambi
 






THE “POSUFFYOVER” FACTOR or the ambition triad

As a matter of fact, reality has only one face, however, the road to its discovery could be various, depending on one´s speed, instruments, basic predispositions, background conditions, and power of perception. To some it is giving to arrive at reality quick enough, to others, very late, and to many, not at all. But of all things, everybody wants to arrive at the reality, at truth, everybody wants facts as they are and everybody wants to know and to achieve. Nevertheless, not everybody achieves this feat at the same level, giving the aforementioned prerequisites. In the pursuit of truth, fundamentally, there are those who follow the right path and naturally those who go the wrong way. The numbers of those who follow the right path are unfortunately much reduced. This is because that road is very rigorous and demanding. To follow that road, one needs focus, principles, convergent energy and rugged consistency. To be ambitious entails to be on the steady search. But on the search for what? Of course searching for the truth in whatever thing one does. Truth is the highest thing one can ever search for, find or lose. It is the highest thing there is and ever would be. When one knows the shortest, safest and most certain route to one´s destination in this search and follows it promptly, then one´s ambition is rightly directed.  When the opposite is the case, there, we begin to talk of poor- or over ambition. It’s like this: some people are under- or poorly motivated to pursue this truth, some are sufficiently motivated towards it while some others are erroneously motivated towards this same end. When one is sufficiently motivated, then one is sure on the path of the full positive implication of what Ambition stands for. On the contrary, the effect manifests the conspiracy of doomsday.


The “Po-motivated” side of the Ambition-triad
Plato Ariston, one of the founding fathers of western philosophy in his political philosophy arrived at 3 kinds of people in an Olympic game: the spectators, the players and even those who came to trade. I am sure that if Plato lived today, he would have added the “Olympic-hooligans” to his list. However, I would, for the purpose of this essay, add it for him. Four groups therefore in that Olympic game. Each person or group interestingly participates in a certain way they deem fit. At the centre point in this Plato’s political analysis is the game of Olympics. Therefore, applying these to our theme of discuss, the spectators belong to the “Po-motivated” side of the Olympic triad. They are poorly motivated towards an “active” participation in the game. They are just comfortable with buying their entry tickets wherever the game might be taking place, sitting by the stadium cover and analyzing the game´s progression, whether rightly or wrongly doesn’t come into question. Their involvement in and motivation towards the games is a thing of the head and they busy themselves making theories of how the games should have been or what the players should have done in order to come out better. Tell them to go do so, then you are pushing them beyond their limits, away from the circuit where they belong and feel safe. Simply put, they are in nirvana, where suffering is inadmissible and full time relaxation the watch word. They belong to the consumer class. For Norman Vincent Pearle, the reason why these people don’t achieve such physical commitments is because they are weakly motivated while their faith is diluted due from negative little doubts and fear of failure. So they don’t dare to dare lest they fail. They are ever looking, dreaming, analyzing, hoping and theorizing without concomitant practical input to bring to life the contents of their heads. These people occupy the poorly-motivated side of the ambition triad. Most times they aim at nothing and they always hit nothing. Call them the “Po-ambi-membersMcDonald of our entry story belongs here those times he silenced the alarm and didn’t want to wake up from his sleep. He was at that time not yet motivated strong enough to face the reality of waking up.

The “SuffY-motivated” side of the Ambi-triad
This represents the sufficiently-motivated group. They have their plans well spelt out, with times and dates unmistakably intact. Everything in their life has its own time and sequence, non overlaps the other. Their head knows its function of planning, dreaming and strategizing, but it knows equally exactly when to incorporate the services of the other parts of the body and vice-versa. There is collaborative functionality in the body members of the sufficiently-motivated person. He has the desire for achievement, dreams it, plans it and makes sure to realize it. He wakes up from sleep even before the alarm rings, that is, if he needs alarm at all. He knows when to rise up and when to go abed, when to work and how to work, and of course when to rest. So in him is the montage of the “Po” factor and the “Suffy” factor. He begins from mental concepts and ends in the material realization. The players in the field of play in the Plato´s Olympic categorization fall within this class. They care little about the commentaries being run on them and their activities; they care little about analyses of their performances because they are too involved in what they are doing. They are fully concentrated and focused in their goals and destination so that they pick only the instruments that help them achieve their aims, nothing more, nothing less. They are the builders and producers and they provide others topics for discussion. In our leading story, McDonald graduated to this class the time he woke up and stepped outside for the day’s activities. The stage of doing.

The “Over-motivated side” of the Ambi-triad
Here we encounter ambition in its most dangerous definition and implication, effect and appearance.  Here, ambition runs riot and amok, knowing no more it´s boundary and limits. It’s like a vehicle pushed in overdrive, without break, no headlight, no side mirror no inner-centre mirror, no traffic indicator, no steering, only throttle. Would you want to drive such a vehicle? Or would you want to drive in-front of or behind such a vehicle, or would you even want to be given a lift with such a vehicle even if you were stranded in the middle of nowhere? Would you drive in the same road that such a vehicle is plying? Of course the answer to these is in the negative, come what may unless one has dug ones grave, ready to bury oneself. But such is the case that people encounter every day. Over ambitious individuals, who step on toes and damn the consequences; they are all over the place. The “Olympic hooligans” in that Olympic Games fall within this class of people. They care less about whose ox is gored. Violence and rascality; disrespect and blind pursuit is their stock in trade. Let us take it from here: The human society is not just a large social grouping that shares the same geographical territory and is subject to the same political authority. The human society is not just a group of people related to each other through persistent relations such as social status, roles and social networks. The society is a group of people that are controlled, over and above all, by the bonds of cultural identity and laws, by the bonds of social solidarity and functional interdependence, a grouping of individuals which is characterized by mutual interests and a common objective and may have distinctive institutions.

As a matter of fact, the prerogative of every society, over and above all, is to uphold its common interest while safeguarding a peaceful co-existence of the individual members, fostered by functional interdependence augmented with unflagging social solidarity. As such it may not suffice to uphold any grouping of people as a society if mutual interests, social solidarity, functional interdependence and common objective are egocentrically and damply tampered with individual egotistic interests often manifested in unguarded quests. These unguarded quests emanates from the dark side of ambition: to be seen or known more than others, to be above others, to have more than others, to know more than others, to understand above others, to control others and never to be answerable to anybody outside self. Such a quest has  of course drawbacks that distort the good ordering of the society because the over-ambitious soul knows nothing next to carefulness, respect for natural nor man-made laws, no respect for individuals and no attention whatsoever to the feelings or good of others. Ambition in the words of Emily Dickson, an American poet, is like a bee, which has a song and a sting. Here, in over-ambition, we encounter it´s painful sting, where caution is thrown to the ever blowing harmattan haze. McDonald of our story became a member of this group immediately he decided to reach his destination by hook and crook. In him is the presence of the triad.

But let truth be told, the unguarded quest for recognition and more, which is represented in the “over-motivated” side of the ambi-triad, is not at all inconsistent with human nature. “The desire”, St Augustine writes in his “City of God”, “tempts even noble minds”.  Politicians and religious leaders, men, women, boys, girls and children alike, all want to be or have more. But it is in the presence of this quest that characters are defined, and groups differentiated, the good from the bad and ugly. How one channels ones inner motives and with which method one goes around the realization of those inner yearnings gives one ones character and categorizes one either to the Poorly, sufficiently or over-motivated ambition divide. Karol Wojtyla, the Pope John Paul II, for one, Mother Theresa of Calcutta, Martin Luther King Jr., even Jesus the Christ himself, were examples of people caught up in this web and they are reckoned today only in paradigmatic instances. But such a quest has led so a many to do unspeakable and despicable things, thus impeding the smooth flow of the society and hindering progressive development. The Roman Julius Caesar, the Egyptian Cleopatra, The German Adolf Hitler, the Libyan Muammar al-Gadhafi, the Nigerian Sanni Abacha, the Spanian Christopher Columbus, are all but few examples of people who were caught up in this web. Today the world remembers them only in apocalyptic cadences. Difference lies in methodology.

Thing is, the impulse could be the same but the methodology and consequence totally parallel.  Hence, the baneful hazards of the quest for more sprout when egocentricity is not checkmated by social solidarity, cohesion and esteemed common interest. The important consequence of this is the unrest and instability that is vibrating and resounding in many societies of the world today, in African societies for one, and far beyond the coasts. Those at the helm of affairs at the state institutions would prefer fame to common objective and mutual interests at the expense of the rule of law and the general common good. What a shame!

A dignifying consensus
There is always a starting, meeting and returning point for all things that work. It´s called the drawing board. At that point and place, reason takes its place and determines as it were, the best route of departure and the way forward. At that meeting point, as it pertains to our concern here, selfishness drops its grip and recedes to the background, allowing selfless collaboration to take the centre stage. At that point, people begin to search for the ultimate liberating truth and the best methodology of its pursuance. This puts the common good before the good of the self. At that point, sometimes, the self even disappears completely and subsumes itself into the universal, which means, being there for others and putting others before self. Alexander Graham Bell is well known by almost all. He invented the phones but he never made a call to his family because his wife and daughter were deaf. That’s life lived for others for the worst in life is attachment to our desires. Granted, humans are by nature selfish. If man is at one point not wanting to be involved in the progress of others, he wants to overshadow it. Everybody at one time or the other wants their light to shine more than that of others and to be candid, there is nothing absolutely wrong with that. Indeed it is expected that people make honest efforts to be at the forefront of events. The problem however arises when the philosophy of the end justifying the means rules the strategy. Such a philosophy needs to be rearranged to fall into shape.

Poorly motivated ambition is as wrong as over motivated ambition because the one draws the world into an unending abyss of consumerism culture, irrecoverable laxity and consequent stagnation, while the other brings everything into chaos. The meeting point is in the ambition that is sufficiently motivated, where all the unbridled disequilibrium of poorly-and over ambitions are checkmated. Therefore, the sufficiently motivated ambition acts as the checking point for the other two sides. When one is not sufficiently motivated, one is likely to give up ones designs when one has almost reached one´s goal. At that stage, it becomes imperative for one just to cull the sufficient dogged energy of inner motivation to obtain victory by exerting, even if it is at the last moment, more vigorous efforts than ever before. But care needs here be taken not to over cross the boundaries and sacrifice ones conscience to ambition because that would tantamount burning a picture only to obtain its ashes. Peace!

Kingsley Anagolu
Jan 13, 2016